I believe everybody has the capacity to give as much love to as many people as they possibly can and not be depleted with it for themselves. The reason as to why most relationships fail is because each party in that relationship wanted something from it.
I look at the relationship i have with Noor (my best friend) and not in any lifetime, would i have imagined she and i would be friends let alone best of friends. At the beginning of our friendship, which i cannot really remember, none of us wanted something from the friendship or from the other person. In fact i doubt if any of us wanted to be close friends. But we let everything fall into place.
We didn’t demand anything out of each other or from the relationship. We accepted each other for exactly who we are. And that’s how i think the friendship grew and became the strong bond we have right now.
So i have tried the same concept on all other relationships i have and the one’s i am making. Not to ask for anything in return but to accept everyone just as they are and share my love with anyone and everyone. And currently most of the time i am surrounded by happy people.
Love is the only thing that should not demand. It should give and give and give. Forget rejection; because you can take rejection and handle it too. But without love you are a nobody but just an empty shell walking through life instead of living it. Rejection is not the worst thing in the world after all.
Get out of that shell and start living life… Your life… And be the person God created you to be. Fulfil all your wildest dreams and deepest desires. Make a fool of yourself than live with always wondering what it would have been like. Truth is; if you love and respect yourself…. Love will chase you, find you and follow you. Because love will always want to be a part of love. And we all wanna be a part of that.
Come sad or happy days. Cloudy or sunny skies. Cold or hot weather. You will always have a happy Noni 
